Curiosity Killed the Cat

We all have had that opportunity. yes, that golden opportunity to try to see who that person really is. What are they hiding? Are they lying to you, and you're looking for definitive proof? They're hiding something, you just know it. So we take that opportunity to look and try to see who they really are. What are you going to find? Tighty whities instead of boxers? Pictures of an ex that they're supposedly "over" but somehow the pictures have barely been hidden? Anal beads? In any case, my point is this: No matter what you find, you can't really complain too loudly. If you go looking for shit, don't complain about the way it stinks. Yes, you have new information, and it's probably information you didn't really want to know. But you're also probably passing judgement on whatever it is that you've found, all the while holding yourself on your pedestal in comparison to whatever vile thing it is you found. Maybe they're cheating on you, and now you know. You're in the wrong, too. You violated their privacy in your quest for knowledge. I'm not saying you should act as though you never went snooping. By all means, do what needs to be done. Take that information and continue on with your life, with or without said person whose preference for wearing man thongs has just been exposed.